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My Husband is Gay

Tue, Feb 2nd 1999

I am 23-years old and have been married for 5 months. About three weeks ago my husband had an affair with a man. I didn't know what had happened. He just dissapeared for four days, then came home and told me that he was gay. He told me the whole story and who the man was. We are still together because I didn't know what to do. We need help but I haven't been able to find anyone who can help us. Our minister at church has been looking for help as well but comming up short. I need help and support, please help me. If you have any information please let me know.

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